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Maybe she wasn't there in that moment, maybe a million other things. Why go right to racism for messing up an order and being rude? I'm not saying it wasn't racism...I'm just saying people jump really quickly on the race wagon. There are truly a million reasons why the host could have acted that way. Don't assume it's because of your interacial relationship that she messed up your order on purpose. If it was, she would have fucked your order up to for being with another race. I just had a visual for a skit of this, a couple of microaggression sensitive liberals, interracial couple, that order food at multiple drive throughs, and each time, they had incorrect. BUY IT: Hot Merry Christmas Woofmas Pomeranian Dog Gift Ugly Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Relationship. The lady could have had a bad day, hate her job, have problems at home, think your unattractive or smell. To jump straight to racism because someone is rude is a heck of a leap. But it’s acceptable cause you are in a conservative town. If you where in a City would you think differently. If masks were mandatory would that change it. Pretty quick to judge on something and tell the world how bad it was when you have no idea or clue as to why a waitress was rude too you. Just automatically assume it has to be racism.... So, you assume it was racism? Maybe the hostess was being treated like shit from other people there. Maybe their dog just died the. BUY IT: Good Pretending It’s Still Baseball Season Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Seem to imply other people weren’t wearing them. I'm a mixed race man in the UK. I much prefer your reaction to your fiance's. I never, ever assume something is racism. It doesn't even occur to me, unless it's undeniable (e.g. being called a paki). What you've written here is just wrong. What you should have written is "what I percieved as rude, he perceived as racism" because there's absolutely no proof of racism in this situation. It's really pitiful that everyone nowadays sees everything through the lens of race and assumes racism. For all you know she could've just been having a bad day. Part of the problem is you assume it’s because you are  interracial. BUY IT: Perfect Merry Christmas 2020 Reindeer Wear Mask Vintage Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Logs and came to an a freemen’s that nothing wrong was done by the brewery. The other couple that got sat had a reservation. The camera logs showed quite a polite interaction with the host. Etc etc. 45 minutes later another couple arrived, sat in patio, but then got taken inside to sit shortly after. Interracial couple assumed they got skipped because of discrimination of race. They said everyone was staring at them, and the host was quite rude.All I’m saying is don’t jump to conclusions. The host could have treated everyone that way that night, maybe they are a shitty host or having a rough night? Maybe they actually were upset about the masks, since you so. BUY IT: Official Kamala Harris Mvp Madam Vice President Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Hate for this but like what you said about choosing your battles. As a person in an interracial marriage I don't see what this has to do with "Trumps America" moreso this is an issue of institutionalized racism that will unfortunately have to be slowly bleed out of this county and the world as a whole. Equating racism to figures of authority takes away the responsibility of people on the local level. And as we grown more and more tolerant as a society racism will be a thing far in the past. Made a post on social media that blew up, talking shit about the brewery. Since then, the brewery has met with the couple. They went over camera footage their reservation. BUY IT: Happy My Worst Nightmare Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Something. unreal, This is the thinking that scares me about America. Sorry I’m going to play devils advocate here. I live in a small mountain town, and while I do agree with you about not escalating and it could be way worse for him than you, please don’t automatically assume the hostess was being racist. My food orders, and husbands too, are messed up about 85% of the time. And the waiters and waitress are rude af. Some of the stories would blow your mind. I’m actually wondering if you possibly were in my town, lol. Except that we do have the mask mandate. They just don’t care about their customers. And this one just seems like a rude asshole. I may a some. BUY IT: Premium Lgbt Unicorn Dabbing Feeling Magical But Also Stabby Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

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Treated up to their standards. God I hope I get to make a lot of money one day so I can also read the minds of people with less income than me. I also grew up in the inner city and never experienced someone calling me a racist at any of my jobs in that city. So please go call the manager and have a woman fired from her job because of racism when she didn’t say anything to you. You keep saying this person was rude but give zero examples. Apparently the demeanor of the help wasn’t up to snuff for you. It’s classist, elitist and to some extent cruel.Thank you for this. As a brown person who absolutely loves spending time in nature, and camping, the concern is't. BUY IT: Awesome James Corden Are You Asking Me To Step Into Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Was overwhelmed. You also say she pushed your partner out of the way. She probably had to get somewhere in a hurry at her JOB. You don’t know what this woman is thinking and saying oh she’s a racist is messed up. I agree with your partner about not making a fuss over 3 dollars because most people who’ve ever experienced any sort of real issues in their life wouldn’t. Maybe your post should be about how coddled and entitled you are instead of how you now understand racism because of being in a busy restaurant where the staff was overwhelmed. I work in the service industry and you don’t know how many times people have called me a racist because they didn’t get. BUY IT: Original I’ll Be On Your Naughty List Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Was under a lot of stress? Maybe she just got done dealing with shit customers? Maybe you’re a high demanding shit customer? Have you worked in the food industry? I can think of at least two dozen reasons why her service wasn’t up your asses and not actually racist. Although that wouldn’t allow you to feel bad for yourself. Good god this post is ridiculous. You can’t stand witness to her treatment of others when you admit to leaving after ordering and only coming back when your food was ready. I’m sorry but this post reads as so elitist, you just said that the restaurant was way too busy for you to be comfortable with. Did you ever think that maybe the hoste. BUY IT: Hot Great Let It Snow Somewhere Else Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

The same for many friends. At some point we perpetuate their feelings because we dont stand up for our friends and family. it sounds like you made some absolutely crazy accusations about somebodies racial tolerance strictly based on one interaction where she was rude (wow in busy america what a surprise), and she messed up an order. I hope you never make a mistake where you work otherwise people will think you are a racist biggot I couldn’t count on my hands and feet how many times my order has been fucked up at a restaurant and I’m white as fuck. Maybe an overreach here in some regard. You said yourself the place was packed and it was late. Maybe the waitre. BUY IT: Top President Joe Biden Inauguration Day January 20th 2021 Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Red or blue states or urban vs rural areas. There's some truth to the idea that Trump's election win has galvanized a certain segment of the population to being more bold with their racism, but it's only a tiny percentage and what you're seeing is something common. I would know. Lots of white privileged people in these comments. Im sorry you have to deal with that negativity and you’re right the hostess was probably hostile because of his appearance. Also though fuck that lie down and take it shit. Karen it the fuck up. Being white also gives you that privilege to go tell her what not for making a mistake. Stand up for your man when he cant honey. I have don. BUY IT: Nice I'm Dreaming Of A Wine Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

The fact that you got so many awards and upvotes for posting this and doing the bare minimum as a white woman is infuriating. if i got an applause every time someone made a comment about me being asian, maybe living in a racist society wouldn’t be so awful. instead of finding it funny that you were too privileged and naive to realize what was going on, you should talk to your fiance about his experience as a poc in white america.... this post is annoying I'm probably going to be down voted and it's unlikely that OP will see this post, but "picking your battles" is something people of color have been dealing with long before Trump and it has nothing to a with. BUY IT: Funny Cute Ho Ho Hodor Toothless Merry Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Trump only made these individuals and communities feel like it was totally ok to hate some based on the colour of their skin or their choice of religion. I just dont like Biden for all of the incarceration of all my minority family members during the crime bill. The Assault Weapons Ban also was terrible. Im voting red, even though im a liberal, gun loving, patriotic man. All my latino friends agree with me, but won't say shit about our views outside our group. If you just now realized that racism like this exists in america, you need reconsider your perspective. people have been treated like this for decades, no matter what president has been in office. dude. BUY IT: Good Beautiful Manson For President Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

Whatever). I think how it has to with Trump is this: he is blatantly and unabashedly rude and intolerant to lots of people (women, the disabled, any race other than Caucasian, anyone who isn’t wealthy). So, the fact that their “leader” does it, that makes it okay to bring all their bigotry and whatnot out of the shadows and put it out there for all to see - be proud of it even, like he is. And this is scary. Personally, I would have went back. Sitting quite does nothing. It just means that it's going to happen to the next person. Even if I can't change her mind and let her see that she's being a dumbass by judging people based on how they look, I'd at leasts. BUY IT: Nice Joe Biden The Only Bright Spot In 2020 President Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

Its as easy as taking the sign off to feel safe. Black people can't remove their skin and are in constant danger and fear. We all share similar story’s and experiences, but we have to fight back by showing them we are not what they think of us. I always tip more then what I’m supposed to hoping it will change their perception of people of color. People go out to have a good time and be with people they love not to have to worry and stress about the food or the situation. I love all of you and hope the world will change sinner rather then later. I’ve read some comments asking how this has to do with Trump and maybe this waitress is alway like this racist,rude. BUY IT: Hot Beautiful Make America Rake Again American Flag Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

Gets treated like an outsider. Or this one time my daughter had to go potty and we were in nowhere Cali and could only find a mexican restaurant. Or whenever I go to this conch shack in Bimini and am made to wait despite being there earlier for whatever local walks in the door. Im a white woman with a BLM sign on my car in a small very Republican town. Ive had gum stuck to my car, tailgaters and middle fingers plenty. As the election gets closer, things are getting even more volatile. I had to take the sign off my car today. I worry for the little ones in my car. Worry that the racist cops would react differently if my car was in an accident.It bullshit that. BUY IT: Top Cool Make America Rake Again Lawn And Order Trump Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

Republican and democrats. I’ve also experienced racism when Obama was president and when Clinton was president. I’ve also experienced racism from liberals. I didn’t blame the president, I blamed the person who was racist. I’ve also met conservatives that were perfectly respectful as well as liberals. Anyway I try not to generalise a whole group of people by one interaction with one person. Well to assume the world is racist and you were a victim is super cool now so I appreciate your call out of a crappy situation I have to say it kinda reminds me of the service I get whenever I go someplace rural where everyone knows each other and me an all my whiten still.  BUY IT: Original Cute Pro Life Pro God Pro Gun Patriotic Americans Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Teeshirtbear   -  Custom - Tshirt

That the hostess just sucked at her job and didn't really care? I doubt the kitchen would do something different to his food as well intentionally. How would they even know? That is a lot of racism. not only that, the hostess usually doesn't ring in orders and the kitchen doesn't see customers. Did someone go back there and tell them to leave the upgrade off? (Maybe I misunderstood this part of the story though and you weren't stating this was also part of the racism) Plus, why would they put it on the ticket and then leave it off. I’m brown, I meet rude people all the time. I don’t assume racism I just assume they’re assholes. I’ve met assholes that aa both. BUY IT: Premium Joe Biden Merica Sunglasses Ribbon American Flag Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

To the quality of employees based on the rate of pay and how busy these places get. Many tourists also treat employees in these towns like they are inferior and so they quickly become jaded and don't give a crap about their job. I live in a very conservative area of the US in eastern TN, not too far from the great smoky mountains. The Pigeon Forge / Gatlinburg area has a very familiar feel to this story and checks all the boxes. (Camping area, lots of tourist shops / restaurants, no mask mandates, super conservative, etc.) I wasn't there, so I don't know all the details, but I have had this thing happen to me many times and I am pretty darn white.Is possible. BUY IT: Happy Make America Rake Again Vintage Election Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

Recognize that I'm not from around there and proceed to give me a hard time. Definetely innapropraite of you to assume racism, to me it seems as if you were the only one to bring race into the situation... I feel like you are just assuming everything is about you. “Omg she hates us because we’re in a interracial relationship...blah blah blah.” Maybe you have a bad vibe or negative energy about yourself and she didn’t want anything to do with that. Your post is laced heavily with the whole “look at me a white woman dating a brown guy, give me attention because of that” kinda vibe going on. This type of thing happens all over this town, however it  usually due. BUY IT: Pretty Great Usa And Dumbfuckistan Democrats 2020 Election Map Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

And unjust b.s. that's how it continues, yes ive been in situations with da popo, assaults on 5 times, still stand. Little things like a burger or being rude start the bigger shit... Fuckin upgraded us extra, worked for it, for the waitress. Always report bad b.s. at places like that too, go as high up the latter as you can. FUCK injustice of any kind to and race. You have no idea if this was racially motivated or not. You claiming racism is good for no one. If I had to guess she probably recognized you guys were tourists and doesn't like outsiders. This type of stuff happens all the time to me, a white guy, when I visit the more rural spots of my state.They. BUY IT: Awesome New Years Trump End Of An Error 2021 Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

Just Trump but he certainly encourages those who feel that way. Stay strong and stay safe. It's not worth confronting stupid people. Just recognize who they are and others will too. More and more people are finding themselves chastised for their idiocy when they show their true selves. Your story, although interesting, isn’t really based on any facts. It is just your opinion of what to think was happening and why. Try not to take such a diminished view of the world. And your title and story have as much to do with Trump as it does with all other politicians. I am also in a interracial relationship. Doesn't matter what you believe, always stand a for yourself. BUY IT: Official Love Thanks Pennsylvania Joe Biden President Of The Us American Flag Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

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Race was never really a thing. A few hours after she said that POC choose to be poor amongst some other pretty fucking racist things. I pulled a card I thought I would never have to. One I really didn't want to use but she wasn't getting it. We were going out to dinner and offered to drive, I said "No I don't want you to drive" she said "Why?" i went through this same crap in the early 2000s. trying to order a sandwich at nice family run place on the beach in florida. Sad truth is, trumpies were out their all along. sorry this happened to you, im getting numb to it 20 years later. we had a guy purposely cough on us walking down the street not be too long ago. BUY IT: Funny Pro America Anti Trump 2020 Election Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

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That angry. We honestly don't feel safe or welcome most places in the country at this point. When we think about buying a piece of land somewhere for peace and quiet we have to realize that most rural places will be openly hostile to us. I've seen open swastika tattoos and Nazi paraphernalia in Kansas, Maryland, Pennsylvania, Washington, you name it. The states and even parts of states we can realistically move to is shrinking all the time, unless we want to deal with full blown racism on a daily basis. I've had managers at retail stores I worked at specifically tell me to follow black people when they came in the store, which I obviously flat out refused to. BUY IT: Premium So We Did It Joe Joe Biden Kamala Harris 2020 Election Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

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Is take out orders being screwed up when Trump is re-elected then that’s a pretty good thing. Hate to tell you... this was here LONG before trumps America. I remember when I was a kid going on a road trip to Florida with my parents (visit family and Disney world + stops along the way. We stopped by a mcdonalds to get food in... Arkansas? I think? My parents went through a similar situation. Maybe she was just having a really bad day because her work was crowded and they were not staffed for it and needed someone to cut her some slack. Is it fair to assume she was just bad for no reason? There are lots of things that could be stressing her out a this pandemic. BUY IT: Perfect Vip Property Of Detroit Michigan 2020 Voter City Where All Votes Matter Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Reallovetees   -  Custom - Tshirt

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All over the world long before Trump, and it will exist long after Trump. But, no, "...it's all the president's fault that this one particular person with their own free will treated me with what the media has told me perceive as racism." Bringing race into an issue because a food order was wrong and someone was rude is a bit of a stretch. You have no clue why the order was wrong. You have no clue of the personal opinions or beliefs of anyone in the restaurant you went to, but yet you can say with confidence that "they are racist" merely because you're in an interracial relationship? I think yuo're looking to hard take try and find a problem. I despise Trump. BUY IT: Good French Bulldog Christmas Tree Dog Santa Xmas Gifts T-Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Fanatictees  -  Custom - Tshirt

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To everyone or have an attitude. This sub is the worst for reinforcing this kind of thinking. Sometimes you just have a mildly unpleasant interaction with a stranger. That's OK, you don't need to interpret it as the downfall of western civilization. Yeah, as much as I think Trump is a terrible direction for race relations, there's nothing definitive in the description of events. I'm not saying it happened or didn't happen - it's just equally plausible with the information provided. But none of us were there so... who knows? I'm sorry, but I'm having trouble understanding how it's 'Trump's America' when this stupidity has been for decades.. like.. many decade. BUY IT: Pretty Stop Being The Bigger Person Slash Their Tires 2020 T-Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Fanatictees  -  Custom - Tshirt

Made my fair share of mistakes that I assure you had nothing to do with the customer’s race :) Agreed. I’ve worked in restaurants in “Hicksville USA” and I promise you none of the mistakes I made had anything to do with race. Literally no one was ever treated differently or poorly by myself or my coworkers based on race/gender/religion/sexual orientation. I was also wondering about this. Not to play devil's advocate but I've worked in a lot of restaurants and is it possible the host was just an ass or having a bad day or had to stay over shift due to amount of business? Not saying racism doesn't exist but restaurant employees are people and can just be means. BUY IT: Premium Baby Yoda Santa I’m Not Short I’m Baby Yoda Size Merry Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Fanatictees  -  Custom - Tshirt

Less of the "stink eye." He definitely gets people unwilling to look him in the eye on the regular though. If you remember all the old civil rights photos with white people yelling and laughing at black people its not too hard to find one with white children acting just like the adults. If you've ever wondered what happened to those kids like I have, it's pretty obvious they grew up, laid low, raised their kids to think like them and now thanks to Trump they're just out and proud again. My thoughts exactly. Hostess could have been racist, but honestly it just sounds like a mistake that OP took wayyy out of proportion...IDK, I wasnt there, but as a server I’v. BUY IT: Original Barry Wood Christmas Shirt Premium Trending Shirt This Is Season: Fanatictees  -  Custom - Tshirt